It seems online there is a different set of rules, infidelity is not a taboo, it's the norm. Me personally, I never learned to share that much. If my mate wanted to wander, they can have their walking papers, cheating is cheating. I can't divide my emotions. Besides if they want to "play" then we have a lot of problems to begin with.

What do you think? Is "cybering" cheating? Or is it "just harmless fun"? What constitutes crossing the line? Is it okay if there is no "Sex Play"? Would you be so open minded if you caught your mate? Would you be hurt?

Tough questions huh, well life ain't always easy. Seems to me there is always a victim, when you play with someone's emotions.

Still some believe "Cyber-Play" is just an outlet. I think they have issues they aren't facing. Possibly they can't commit to one person, even though outwardly they are "with" someone, they live their fantasy's out online. Wouldn't it make more sense to stop de-personalizing intamacy, and strengthen your bonds with the one you love? I heard once two tv's can save a marriage, I guess two computers can too, but I still like to think there can be romance, and love, that can last a lifetime!

Wonder if they ever thought all this would happen when they opened the net up to everyone. I think WWW. stands for Wild Wild West..

Course I could be wrong, I'm no expert..

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