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 Hello
campers, it's a new week, and time for a new article. We each
have an invisible area around us we define as personal space. Did
you know this boundary has been enhanced? It has indeed. We each
need time to ourselves. Out of sight doesn't always mean out of
mind. How can we expect love from someone if they never have time
to feel it? If you are around someone 24/7 you can tend to get under
foot, and stop them from doing things they like or need to do. If
you are in the middle of your 4 score and 7 years on the planet
earth, and are dating once again, remember these few tips, they
could save your relationship, and even help it grow stronger.
- Personal
time is very important.
Be considerate, and understanding. Don't try to monopolize their
time.
- Guys,
the lady in your life
with kids, has her hands are more than full. They come first,
get used to it. They're part of the package. Besides, there's
more to love.
- Ladies,
his time with the guys
is needed. Not every night, but they are his friends. Would you
abandon yours for him?
- With the
new convergence of online dating, we send more emails, cards,
etc. Don't let your feelings be hurt if you don't hear back as
often as you write. It's like talking on the phone all day everyday,
eventually you run our of things to talk about. And it can become
boring. This is the kiss of death to a new and budding relationship.
- You had
a life before you met them,
keep in touch with it. Don't cut personal ties, and give up your
pleasures. You can make time for both if you are open and honest.
Part of picking the right mate, is having a good line of communication.
This should
help you understand your own needs and those of the person you
love. We all want to be with our hearts desire, but "absence
makes the heart grow fonder". Truer words were never spoken.
Try to spend quality time, instead of monopolizing it..!
Of course I
could be wrong, I'm no expert..:)
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